Teodoro “Ted” Inciong of Bartlett, Illinois passed away peacefully at home surrounded by his wife and children on Sunday March 13, 2022 at the age of 81.
Ted was born in the Philippines on February 28, 1941 in the town of Mataas na Kahoy to Ruperto and Cresencia (Tibayan) Inciong. Ted immigrated to the United States in 1966 to begin his career in architecture. An entrepreneur and artist at heart, Ted built a successful business creating hand-drawn, sought-after architectural renderings for prominent commercial and residential developments throughout the Chicago area.
He was a loving husband to Esperanza whom he married on July 6th, 1968. He was a proud father to his daughter, Jennifer, and his two sons, Theodore (“TJ”) and Jerome. Ted adored his six grandchildren who affectionately knew him as “Lolo”. He was passionate about the sport of golf and was a revered member of the Philippine Golf Club. He often competed in tournaments and won many club titles over the years. Ted had a great singing voice and enjoyed karaoke; he was known to enthusiastically belt out classics such as “My Way” by Frank Sinatra and “Yesterday When I Was Young” by Glen Campbell.
Ted is preceded in death by his parents, Ruperto and Cresencia, brother Florante, and sister Emma. He is survived by his wife, Esperanza, his three children, Jennifer, TJ, and Jerome, six grandchildren, Oliver, Emma, Anna, Noah, Isla, and Navy as well as brothers Rogelio, Edgardo, Oscar, Josefino, and Ruperto Jr., and sisters Leticia, Ester, Wilma, and Princess.
Visitation will be held on Friday, March 18th, 2022 at Salerno’s Roseland Chapel in Roselle, IL from 3pm – 9pm. A memorial mass will be held at St. Peter Damian Church in Bartlett, IL on Saturday March 19th at 10am.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Parkinson’s research. www.michaeljfox.org/donate
Phone: (630) 889-1700
Address: 450 W. Lake Street Roselle IL, 60172
Address: 131 S. Crest Ave. Bartlett Illinois, 60103
Service Date: March 19th 2022
Funeral Time: 10:00 am
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Wilma Inciong Sarmiento
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Tuesday, March 29, 2022
I’m sharing video as a tribute to my brother Ted and it’s been my joy to put this together to always remember him. He is truly unforgettable. I miss his smiling face specially during the times we connected through Facebook messenger. So every time time I wanna see his smiling face I view this video and I hope that you can do the same. Thank you.
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Esper Inciong
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Sunday, March 20, 2022
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George Balocating
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Sunday, March 20, 2022
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Veronica Thompson
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Saturday, March 19, 2022
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Wilma Inciong Sarmiento
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Friday, March 18, 2022
Our Inciong family picture in 1966, From one big family of 11 siblings Kuya Ted is 2nd to the eldest standing on the back far left. Me in the center is the youngest sister holding the very first toy and blue teddy bear that he surprised me with after he arrived from Africa. My 3 big brothers sitting at the front, we’re gifted too by Kuya Ted with real looking toy guns. All 3 of them became pretend cowboys in our town of Mataasnakahoy in the Philippines. There’s also a bonus battery operated Volkswagen car toys with head lights and all and are bump free. Just pure coolness. As a brother he knew what his kid siblings are crazy about and all these were brought about by his generosity. It surely put a big smile on our faces. His caring and thoughtful nature continued on. In 1985, he took the time to bring me flowers after I had my first baby, Lauren. It really meant a lot and made me feel extra special. There were times that he would treat me to a fine restaurant just the two of us enjoyed that burger on a rye bread. Extra perks like lending me a tent when we went camping at Amboy, Illinois and turned out to be a plain canopy not a tent because we both didn’t check what was in the box. Loved the goofiness between us. In 2005 he was so excited about the architectural plan of the ancestral house that he emailed me but unfortunately didn’t come into fruition due to some restrictions. That to me is big time LOVE. So much stories to tell and I never reviewed any of it with Kuya Ted because we became far apart when my family and I moved to California in 1989. I do know for sure how much he loved me and the totality of the Inciong Family. You’re a good brother Kuya Ted and a good guy. I love you very much! Will miss doing Facebook messenger with you!
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Portia Uganiza
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Friday, March 18, 2022
Chicago Trip 2021 ~ Sibling finally met each other for how 20+ years.
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Elsie & family/Jun & family
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Friday, March 18, 2022
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Anonymous
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Friday, March 18, 2022
Having dinner on during our Southeast Asia Princess Liner Cruise.
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Marissa Tibayan Teixeira
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Friday, March 18, 2022
Our deepest condolences Ate Anching and the Inciong Family. We will always remember the time shared with us on our wedding day as our Sponsors.
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Ester I Martija
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Friday, March 18, 2022
Kuya Ted and Ate Anching relaxing at our deck on one warm summer day.
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TJ
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Friday, March 18, 2022
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Joy Tibayan
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Thursday, March 17, 2022
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Shrise Blair
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Wednesday, March 16, 2022
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Martija Family
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Wednesday, March 16, 2022
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Robert Laxamana
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Tuesday, March 15, 2022
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Wilma Inciong Sarmiento
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Tuesday, March 15, 2022
The time came when we cannot be together so I’m keeping you in my heart where you can stay forever. Missing you much Kuya Ted…
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Mr and Mrs Warren/Celine Caraos
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Tuesday, March 15, 2022